Parenting: Don’t Bother Preparing

Plans so often go awry that I’d rather act impulsively and then be delighted rather than plan excessively and then be disappointed. This is why advanced-planning stresses me out. Since parenthood is all about dealing with the unexpected, my lack of preparation sort of suits me.   During our first surrogate pregnancy, “preparing” meant buying … Continue reading Parenting: Don’t Bother Preparing