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  • Surrogacy Costs & Options | Growing Generations

    HOW MUCH DOES SURROGACY COST? SURROGACY COSTS INVESTING IN YOUR FUTURE & YOUR FAMILY We offer three programs to suit the various needs of our clients: Legacy, Legacy+ and Heritage. For each program you can choose whether you want a fixed or variable pricing option. Both options are designed to provide you with an exceptional customer experience, high level of care, and concierge services tailored to your unique needs. When evaluating the actual costs of our surrogacy processes, the average total costs for each program range as follows: Legacy: $197,000 to $235,000+ Legacy+: $266,000 to $300,000+ Heritage: $464,000 to $500,000+ GROWING GENERATIONS SECURE PROGRAM Every successful surrogacy process contains the same elements: a great surrogate, a pregnancy, and a baby. Each case, however, will have variations that influence the total costs. Your final budget will be shaped by the surrogate’s location, her compensation package and wages, the number of attempts it takes to get pregnant, as well as several other potential expenses that cannot be predicted ahead of time. To help you control costs from the very beginning of your process, we developed the Growing Generations Secure Program, or GG Secure. With GG Secure, a fixed-pricing alternative, you pay one amount, and we cover the actual expenses below from the beginning of your process to the moment your baby is released from the hospital: Surrogate’s base compensation and expenses such as lost wages, home help, and childcare. Legal expenses, including paternity legal work. Non-medical expenses related to surrogate re-matches, miscarriages, and additional embryo transfer attempts. Unlimited surrogate medications for ERA cycles, frozen embryo transfer attempts, and pregnancy. Payment of our service fees. Surrogate related insurance expenses. In our Secure Program, your additional surrogacy process expenses are limited to: IVF medical expenses: medical screening and any other medical services performed by your IVF clinic. Twins: we will collect an additional $40,000 to cover the additional compensation and expenses for your surrogate upon confirmation of a twin pregnancy. Breast milk: we can assist in negotiating a compensation and expense allotment to your surrogate for her providing you breast milk. Newborn expenses: for clients without US health coverage. Selection of a surrogate with compensation that exceeds the base compensation of $62,000. Elective Procedures. Your personal expenses along the way (i.e. travel to the delivery). We have offered variable pricing programs for years, and they still provide you with the same quality of service Growing Generations is known for. The variable pricing program could be your best option if there is the possibility you need to discontinue your process early, or if you just prefer to pay actual expenses. ​ In the variable pricing program, you will receive funding requests based on actual and estimated expenses to complete your process. Along the way, you will refresh your account whenever expenses exceed what has been collected. The only expenses that will be fixed are insurance for your surrogate and our service fees, though many legal professionals offer fixed-price options too. VARIABLE PROGRAMS HOW MUCH DOES IT COST TO CREATE EMBRYOS? If you do not already have embryos created, you will also need to factor in the expenses of creating embryos using your own or donated eggs. Families using their own eggs should expect to spend $26,000-$35,000. If you will be pursuing surrogacy with donor eggs, you can expect costs to range from $50,000-$80,000. WHY ARE THE COST RANGES SO LARGE The largest ranges have to do with how much your gestational surrogate receives in compensation, the state in which they live, and which Growing Generations program you select. WHY CHOOSE THE GROWING GENERATIONS SURROGACY PROGRAM? One of our Growing Generations finance team experts will gladly work with you to review cost estimates you have received from other sources and offer advice and guidance. We can also create a tailor-made budget that fits your desires for the surrogacy process, as well as for different cost scenarios. Growing Generations is dedicated to helping you start your family through surrogacy with a clear understanding of costs. The Growing Generations surrogacy program helps hundreds of people each year become parents. Our goal is to prepare you for the journey that lies ahead. Knowing and understanding surrogacy costs and creating a budget at the beginning of your process can help reduce stress and delays. We have been providing surrogacy services for more than 25 years and have an expert understanding of the financial process. BECOME A PARENT LEGACY LEGACY+ HERITAGE LEGACY COST: $197,000 to $235,000+ Our Legacy package covers all the essentials for your surrogate journey. It includes: Customized surrogate match. Case management. Client expense account management. Waived fee for additional surrogate matches if needed. Facilitation of unlimited embryo transfers. Insurance facilitation services. Credit of up to $5,000 for failed surrogate screening expenses. LEGACY LEGACY+ COST: $266,000 to $300,000+ In addition to all the items in the Legacy package, the Legacy+ package also includes: Expedited surrogate matching time. Up to two (2) days of companionship travel by one of our staff members for Obstetrician/Gynecological appointments, delivery, and/or court proceedings as requested. (Travel costs are not included.) Concierge services tailored to your specific needs through mutual agreement. This package provides extra support and customization for your surrogacy journey while enjoying the same unparalleled customer experience. LEGACY+ HERITAGE COST: $464,000 to $500,000+ Our Heritage package allows for the most customization for your surrogacy journey. In addition to all the benefits from the Legacy+ package, the Heritage package also includes: Two additional days of companionship travel by one of our staff members for Obstetrician/Gynecological appointments, delivery, and/or court proceedings as requested. Assignment of an Executive to oversee your journey. Personal contact information and after-hours access to Executive. HERITAGE LEGACY LEGACY COST: $193,000 to $230,000 Our Legacy package covers all the essentials for your surrogate journey. It includes: Customized surrogate match. Case management. Client expense account management. Waived fee for additional surrogate matches if needed. Facilitation of unlimited embryo transfers. Insurance facilitation services. Credit of up to $5,000 for failed surrogate screening expenses. LEGACY LEGACY+ LEGACY+ COST: $262,000 to $300,000 In addition to all the items in the Legacy package, the Legacy+ package also includes: Expedited surrogate matching time. Up to two (2) days of companionship travel by one of our staff members for Obstetrician/Gynecological appointments, delivery, and/or court proceedings as requested. (Travel costs are not included.) Concierge services tailored to your specific needs through mutual agreement. This package provides extra support and customization for your surrogacy journey while enjoying the same unparalleled customer experience. LEGACY+ HERITAGE HERITAGE COST: $460,000 to $500,000 Our Heritage package allows for the most customization for your surrogacy journey. In addition to all the benefits from the Legacy+ package, the Heritage package also includes: Two additional days of companionship travel by one of our staff members for Obstetrician/Gynecological appointments, delivery, and/or court proceedings as requested. Assignment of an Executive to oversee your journey. Personal contact information and after-hours access to Executive. HERITAGE

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    EGG DONATION TIMELINE REFRESHER PREVIOUS ITEM NEXT ITEM You’ve decided to become an egg donor ! What comes next? When do you start medications? What’s going on behind the scenes? These are all questions we expect you to have, and we are thrilled that you’re so excited to get started. Here’s a bird’s eye view of the entire process, from where you are right now through donation day. The first thing you do is fill out our online application . It will take the Growing Generations team about one business day to receive and review your information. On occasion, it can take a bit longer if we need extra information from you. We’ll schedule a video consultation with you if your initial application is approved. The entire conversation usually lasts about 30 minutes. In that time we’ll give you an overview of the entire process, and you'll have time to ask us any questions you may have. After your consultation and once we have the proper items in place, we will create and publish your profile. Your profiles outlines your traits and characteristics from the application you completed, and this is what intended parents see when reviewing our donor database. Next, we wait. This is likely the longest part of your process. While we have had intended parents choose donors the day we publish their profiles, we also have had donors wait for months to be chosen. While a longer wait time can feel disappointing, try to remember that intended parents choose donor eggs with specific criteria in mind and parents tend to be very detail-oriented in making this decision. Once you’re selected it’s time for us to screen you. You’ll typically spend one day near the IVF doctor's office the parents are working with undergoing psychological, medical, and genetic screenings. After doctors process the test results, you’ll spend time talking with lawyers and drawing up contracts. This phase usually lasts between three and four weeks. Now you’re ready for your medical cycle. This phase usually lasts between two and three weeks and includes injectable medications. The needles are very small and the injections are typically pain-free. The medicines will stimulate your ovaries and produce follicles. We expect you to make and keep doctor’s appointments a few times per week during this phase. These appointments are vital to ensure your body is responding to the medications appropriately and track your progress. Finally, it's egg retrieval day. Once your body is ready for egg retrieval you will again see the IVF doctor. About 90% of the procedures are done in the Los Angeles area. The doctor will insert a transvaginal ultrasound wand and pierce each follicle to retrieve your eggs. The procedure lasts about 15-20 minutes, but you should plan to be at the clinic for three hours. If you are traveling from out of town you should plan to be away for four to seven days, as we will do your final monitoring appointments on site. If you are local, doctors will release you to travel home immediately following the procedure. So, there you have it! While we can’t give you a firm answer on how long the entire process will take, know that from the moment you apply, we’re always actively working to get you matched and help you complete a successful journey. If at any time in the process you have questions, feel free to reach out to your admissions or case specialist. They’ve helped hundreds of donors find their matches and will be able to answer any potential questions that you may have.

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    INTENDED PARENTS: WHAT TO PACK FOR DELIVERY PREVIOUS ITEM NEXT ITEM Packing your bag for the hospital can be just as stressful for intended parents as it can be for surrogates. In many cases, this is the intended parent’s first trip to the hospital for childbirth. It is important to feel comfortable and prepared on your big day, but packing your hospital bag can leave you feeling a bit perplexed over what items are most important to take. It may make things easier if you break your packing down into two subgroups: labor & delivery, and recovery. Labor & Delivery: Paperwork: While it is generally the surrogate’s responsibility to bring all of her medical and legal paperwork with her to the hospital, she may be incredibly distracted during labor and forget to grab it. For this reason, it is often a good idea to have copies of your birth plan, parentage order, and surrogacy agreement (contract) packed in your bag. While most hospitals will not ask to see these documents, knowing that you have them at your fingertips can provide you a great deal of peace. Entertainment: This part of the process can be very quick, or incredibly slow. It is impossible to predict how much time you will spend waiting for delivery. For this reason, you may want to pack items that will help you pass the time. Many intended parents pack a book, a laptop for movie viewing or work, a small craft project, or crossword puzzle. Also, if your surrogate is OK with being photographed or filmed, make sure to pack a camera as well. Snacks: Because the labor & delivery timeframe is so uncertain, it might be a good idea to pack snacks in your bag so that you don’t have to step away. However, if you’re in the laboring room with your surrogate, do consider asking her permission before enjoying a snack. Laboring women can be extremely sensitive to smells, and they are not permitted to eat during the labor process. Asking permission is a courtesy that will be very appreciated. Attire: Skin-to-skin contact is becoming a more regularly encouraged practice in the moments to hours following delivery of your child. Science shows that it can help the child regulate both temperature and breathing patterns while also allowing you some immediate bonding. For this reason, we encourage you to wear, or pack, a front-buttoning shirt and perhaps a blanket for modesty. This allows you to expose your chest for those first cuddles as quickly as possible. Recovery: Most hospitals require at least a 24-hour stay for your child following the birth. Do note that, because this is a surrogacy arrangement, your surrogate may be discharged before or after your child. This is completely normal and is no cause for concern. Comfort Items: Growing Generations will work with your delivering hospital as closely as possible to try and secure separate recovery rooms for your surrogate and yourself. This not only allows you the ability to bond with the baby more closely, it allows her peace and quiet so she can rest. However, in the event that the hospital is crowded or this is not possible, you should plan on bringing items with you that could make you more comfortable with sharing a recovery room with your surrogate. Slippers, pillows, socks, and comfortable clothing will help. Toiletries: In most cases, you will need to stay at least one additional night in the hospital. For this reason, it is important to pack your overnight toiletries. Items such as a toothbrush, toothpaste, contact lens solution, and glasses will help make your stay a comfortable one. Camera: Finally, don’t forget to pack your camera! You’ve waited a long time for this moment, and it’s one you’re going to want to remember! Enjoy your first few days with your new baby and don’t forget to take a lot of pictures!

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    PREPARING FOR SURROGACY: TIPS TO HELP PROSPECTIVE SURROGATES HAVE A POSITIVE JOURNEY PREVIOUS ITEM NEXT ITEM Becoming a surrogate is a life-altering experience, not just for you, but for intended parents who choose surrogacy as a path to parenthood. As a surrogate , you can help people become parents despite medical or personal circumstances that have complicated their journey, and same-sex male couples who wish to have a biological child. Your role as a surrogate is an essential part of the family-building process. Your physical and mental well-being takes priority because it helps shape the surrogacy experience for all parties. That's why preparing for surrogacy is essential. As a prospective surrogate, we encourage you to follow these surrogacy tips for a healthy and positive journey. Ensure you're ready: Before diving into the surrogacy process, you must prepare yourself by assessing your motivation and understanding of the commitment you're about to undertake. Make a list of why you want to become a surrogate, and really consider your motivation for taking this journey. If you are undergoing gestational surrogacy, familiarize yourself with the IVF process and understand what happens before your journey begins. Educate yourself on all aspects of surrogacy, from medical procedures to legal processes. Know the responsibilities and rights of surrogates in your region. Choose a reputable surrogacy agency: Selecting a surrogacy agency you trust is a pivotal step in your surrogacy journey. Do your research thoroughly. Consider their track record, client and surrogate testimonials, and the level of support and resources they provide. Find an agency that can deliver the guidance, support, and protection you need every step of the way. Make sure they align with your values as well. Review surrogacy requirements: The first step in your preparation for surrogacy is ensuring you meet all the requirements for being a surrogate. Review the general requirements for all surrogacy agencies, such as age and medical qualifications, and then check any additional or specific requirements of the surrogacy agencies you are considering working with. Prioritize wellness: Practicing self-care and maintaining optimal physical and mental health is paramount during surrogacy. Before starting the process, undergo a comprehensive medical evaluation to ensure you are prepared for the physical and mental demands of pregnancy. Adopt a healthy lifestyle with a balanced diet, regular exercise, and sufficient rest. It's also essential to prioritize your mental well-being through activities like meditation, reading, meeting with a counselor, and establishing a support group. Build a trusted support network: Surrogacy is a unique and emotionally charged experience. Establishing a reliable support system can help you navigate the highs, lows, and everything in between. Share your plans with trusted friends and loved ones who will support you throughout this process. Connect with other surrogates through online forums or local support groups to share experiences and advice. Access to emotional support and people you can depend on is critical to having a positive surrogacy journey. Communicate: Open and honest communication is essential to any surrogacy arrangement. As you begin the surrogacy process, establish clear lines of communication with the intended parents, your surrogacy agency, and medical professionals. Discuss expectations, preferences, and potential challenges to ensure everyone is on the same page. Building a foundation of trust and understanding contributes to a smoother surrogacy experience. Preparing for surrogacy is a multifaceted process involving education, self-care, open communication, selecting the right agency, and ensuring you have an adequate support system. By approaching your surrogacy with a well-informed and positive mindset, you can create a fulfilling experience, not only for yourself but for the intended parents embarking on this shared journey. Remember, your decision to become a surrogate is a remarkable and compassionate choice with the potential to bring immeasurable joy to others. Embrace the journey confidently, knowing you are helping someone on their path to parenthood. If you feel surrogacy may be the right path for you, we encourage you to see if you qualify to be a surrogate with us.

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    WHY EGG DONORS SHOULD TAKE THEIR TIME ON THEIR PROFILES PREVIOUS ITEM NEXT ITEM THE IMPORTANCE OF YOUR EGG DONOR PROFILE During your admissions process, you’ll be asked to complete your donor profile and video. This is the information that is posted on our database for prospective parents to review and select their perfect donor. Your profile consists of your educational history, medical history (mental health, reproductive health, etc.), family/genetic history, and most importantly, photos, and personal essay questions. Some parents are looking for specific qualities in an egg donor, like a higher education level or certain ethnicity, but most parents are hoping to find a donor they can relate to, whether it’s through appearances, personalities, or similar interests. Your profile and video give parents an opportunity to get to know the “real” you. It’s important to take your time creating your profile and not rush through it. Parents are also looking for an egg donor they can trust. Using proper grammar and providing well thought-out responses gives parents confidence that you are serious about this process. KEY ELEMENTS OF YOUR PROFILE Medical Most of your profile consists of listing your medical history. It’s helpful to consult with trusted family members about your family health history, so you can give honest and precise answers. The more details you can provide the better. Parents are looking at this information to ensure they have a compatible health history (i.e., not having a history of diabetes in both families). This is also information the parents will use in the future when providing their child’s health history. Personal The more fun aspect of your profile are the personal essay questions and photos/video. Are you adventurous and love to travel? Do you love animals and volunteer work? Are you a great cook? These questions are designed to really let your personality shine. When parents read your answers, they are hoping to find a connection with you, so it’s important to be honest and true to yourself. MATCHING WITH INTENDED PARENTS Once your profile is published on our database, intended parents will begin reviewing your information. There is no set time frame on when you’ll be selected, but we find that donors who take the time to create a great profile are usually selected sooner. After you’re selected by intended parents, you’ll begin the egg donation process, which consists of medical/psychological screenings, a legal contract, and the IVF cycle for the egg retrieval.

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    MY TUBES ARE TIED. CAN I DONATE? PREVIOUS ITEM NEXT ITEM Occasionally, a woman will come to our egg donation program with the desire to donate her eggs after completing her family. If the potential donor has had her “tubes tied,” she might feel that she is unable to donate as a result, but this is a myth. Following a tubal ligation, women are still able to donate eggs because the process of egg retrieval removes the eggs directly from follicles, before they are released into the body. Cut fallopian tubes do not have an impact on the body’s ability to produce mature, fertile eggs. In fact, the egg donor process will be no different for a donor that has undergone a tubal ligation than it will be for any other donor. You will still be required to take injectable medications and attend several monitoring appointments leading up to the retrieval. The medical process for retrieval will be completed the same way it would if your tubes remained intact. Recovery will also be similar, and side effects will still consist of mild cramping and bloating. Interestingly enough, a woman who has had a tubal ligation is also able to be a surrogate. With the help of science, it is entirely possible for a child to be born without the use of fallopian tubes. Click here to apply to be an egg donor with Growing Generations.

  • How Is Altruistic Surrogacy Different From Commercial Surrogacy? - Growing Generations

    HOW IS ALTRUISTIC SURROGACY DIFFERENT FROM COMMERCIAL SURROGACY? PREVIOUS ITEM NEXT ITEM At Growing Generations, we guide surrogates and intended parents through ethical surrogacy to ensure healthy outcomes for our surrogates, intended parents, and their families. The idea that surrogates are uneducated and financially unstable women who are being led into an arrangement that they would not otherwise choose is common. When surrogacy is done properly these things are objectively not true, and these ideas can be deeply offensive to a woman who is motivated to help change lives. When entering the world of surrogacy, you’ll hear about two main types: altruistic surrogacy and commercial surrogacy. The main distinguishing factor of altruistic surrogacy is that no monetary compensation is offered to the surrogate. Other than that, there are no significant differences between the two types of surrogacy. ALTRUISTIC MOTIVES FOR COMMERCIAL SURROGACY Commercial surrogacy includes monetary compensation and a contract between surrogates and intended parents who don’t usually have a prior relationship. While many people believe commercial surrogacy commoditizes women, we believe that surrogacy can be both altruistic and commercial at the same time. We deeply respect all of our surrogates at Growing Generations and believe they are some of the most incredible women we’ve ever met . So, it’s important that we dispel the misconception that surrogacy is about commoditization. COMMERCIAL SURROGACY WITH ETHICS In reality, surrogacy is a partnership between several parties of educated, informed, and stable adults working together toward a common goal. This level of informed consent and ethical standards is paramount to surrogacy done well. Our gestational surrogates are women who have become mothers themselves and have enjoyed the process of pregnancy, childbirth, and motherhood so much that they wish to give this gift to others. SURROGATE PAY While surrogates in our program receive compensation, the majority of them tell us they would have chosen this journey even if money was not exchanged. It’s important to note that we only work in surrogate-friendly states to avoid legal problems. Motivated by altruistic measures, these women are not only seeking fiscal gain. and this is something we investigate during our in-depth screening process . We screen our surrogates thoroughly, including a review of their income to ensure that financial gains are not a motive for their choice. Our surrogates are women who are financially stable without the added compensation of surrogacy. They do not need this additional income to survive. Additionally, we offer a surrogate compensation package that is competitive but not excessive. SURROGATE SCREENING & CONSENT Beyond simple financial matters, these women are vetted and counseled long before signing any binding paperwork or starting any medications. Our surrogates undergo extensive interviews and psychological evaluations, and they are given the opportunity to ask as many questions as they want before they’re approved to join our program. Surrogates can back out of an agreement at any time before becoming pregnant. We don’t force women to follow through with becoming pregnant if they change their mind. While this rarely happens, thanks in large part to proper screening, it eliminates any concerns over coercion. SURROGATE AGREEMENT CONTRACTS All parties receive their own legal representative to ensure that everyone’s needs can be addressed and considered before moving forward with a binding contract. This ensures that, even if the surrogate is not fluent in legal jargon, she understands what she is agreeing to and has the opportunity to have those requests amended or even removed from her contract before moving forward. You can learn more about the legal aspects of surrogacy in our related blog post . SURROGATE TESTIMONIALS A growing family and the gift of a child are always worth celebrating – whether formed through altruistic or commercial surrogacy. When surrogate applicants are properly screened and vetted, the outcome is nothing short of awe-inspiring. Ethical surrogacy is a shining example of the mountains that can be moved when adults are informed, respectful, and working together toward a common goal. Each Growing Generations surrogate shares a goal of building families, but no two surrogates are the same. Here’s a look into the lives and experiences of these extraordinary people . "Thank you for this incredible opportunity you’ve given me! Being a surrogate has been one of the most fulfilling things in my life and I cannot imagine doing any of this without you. Your support has been incredible and it means the world to me. I could never thank you enough!" - Christina S. "Thank you seems like such a small thing to say for how much I feel. How do you thank people for helping me with one of the GREATEST experiences of my life! You each treated me like I was the most important person in your care." -Jennifer BECOME A SURROGATE If you're thinking about becoming a surrogate, know that Growing Generations is here to support you. You can get in touch with us online to learn more or complete an application to get started.

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    WHEN TO ARRIVE FOR THE BIRTH: INTERNATIONAL IP PREVIOUS ITEM NEXT ITEM Planning to arrive in your surrogate’s hometown in time for the birth of your child can be especially difficult when you’re traveling from another country. While it is important to arrive in town early, international intended parents also have to plan accordingly for the time they’ll need to be stateside following the birth as well. This can turn your stateside visit into a lengthy one. First of all, understand that most babies are not born on their due dates. In fact, studies estimate only about 5% of babies are actually born on their due dates, the rest falling within two weeks to either side of the due date. For this reason, we strongly urge our international intended parents to arrive in town no later than 38 weeks gestation for a singleton, and 36 weeks gestation for a multiples pregnancy. Many intended parents will choose to arrive even earlier as, in many cases, the travel time from their home to their surrogate’s home can be in excess of 24 hours, leaving little chance to make it in time for delivery if labor begins earlier than expected. If you are unable to travel this far in advance of your expected due date, we advise that you’re able to “drop everything and go” when you receive the call that your surrogate is in active labor. In the final weeks of pregnancy your surrogate and her OB will be paying very careful attention to your surrogate’s body as it prepares for labor and child birth. Her OB will be monitoring her swelling, blood pressure, and the heart rate of the baby to ensure that no one is in distress. Elevated levels could lead to a medical induction. The OB will also be performing internal exams on your surrogate’s cervical opening to check for softening, thinning, or dilation, as these can mean labor is approaching. Some women who have experienced childbirth many times say that they are able to tell when labor is nearing and may be able to share her instincts with you in the final weeks. Of course, there is no exact science and false alarms can happen to anyone. A defined plan of action leading into the final weeks of the pregnancy can provide the most relief possible as you await the birth of your child. Whatever your plan is, due try to relax and enjoy the final weeks and days of your journey as much as possible.

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    WHY WOULD A WOMAN BECOME A SURROGATE? PREVIOUS ITEM NEXT ITEM It’s a question we hear often, and it’s not surprising either. Our surrogates are motivated to become surrogates for a great many reasons, but nearly all of them tell us, they become surrogates out of altruistic origins. They want to give the gift of family to someone who is unable to do this for themselves. They often feel as though if they are able to help someone, they should. The goal of this journey is building your family and giving you a child. Every single Growing Generations surrogate is a mother, and in some cases done growing her own family. This means she has already gone through pregnancy and birth, and she understands just how special babies are and how important family is. Gestational surrogates, sometimes called gestational carriers, bear no genetic link to the child they are carrying. This lack of biological connection also contributes to a lack of an emotional maternal link to the child. Dr. Kim Bergman explains, “Surrogates see themselves as basically babysitting your baby, inside their body. They are crystal clear that the baby they are carrying is not theirs and can’t wait to see you holding your baby at the end of the journey”. As the process moves forward, a sense of pride, self-worth, and accomplishment begins to grow in these women. They are intensely proud of the choices they've made to help you grow your family. Surrogates also realize that surrogacy can be financially helpful to their families. Many use the compensation from the surrogacy to start their own business, go back to school, put a down payment on a home, or pay off debt. This compensation opens doors for them that may have otherwise remained closed. As a result, these women are often as grateful to you as you are to them. When you pair the desire to help others, pride, lack of genetic and emotional connection to your child, and financial compensation, it becomes easy to understand how surrogates quite easily and naturally send your baby home with you at the end of the journey. Surrogates respect family and life, they’re on your team by choice, and they want to work with you towards your goal of having a family. In over 20 years of operation, Growing Generations has never had a surrogate change her mind, talk about changing her mind, or need to be talked out of changing her mind, never, not once. This is due in part because of our extremely thorough psychological and medical screening process and because the women who become surrogates are serious about helping someone else have a family.

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    WHEN & HOW TO ANNOUNCE BABY NEWS WHEN USING IVF PREVIOUS ITEM NEXT ITEM The choice of when to share your pregnancy news with those around you is a moment so many parents-to-be dream about for years. When you’re becoming a parent through surrogacy, sometimes this announcement takes on new levels of planning. Intended parents may also feel nervous or stressed about sharing their news because they aren't sure how others around them will react. There are a few different approaches intended parents take when sharing their big news. EARLY REPORTING It can be hard to keep such happy news a secret, especially when the road to pregnancy for most intended parents has been such a long one. Some intended parents feel that sharing the news of a positive pregnancy test early allows friends and family to share in their initial excitement and provides them with support and empathy from those around them. AFTER THE FIRST TRIMESTER Many intended parents wait until the twelfth week of pregnancy to share their pregnancy news, as the rate of miscarriage drops dramatically from this point on. Many parents-to-be may also wait until after the first-trimester screening is complete. Intended parents in this category generally feel as though withholding the news of a pregnancy until it appears to be viable provides them a safety net in the unfortunate event of a first-trimester miscarriage. WAITING UNTIL THE THIRD TRIMESTER OR BIRTH Finally, some parents choose to wait to share the news of their pregnancy until late in the third trimester or even until after the birth. This choice is made for a variety of personal reasons, and a late reveal is an option uniquely available to parents through surrogacy. What is important to remember is that there is no singular “right” time to share your pregnancy news. The right time for one parent may not be ideal at all for another. You’ll need to balance your desires for privacy, support, and inclusion as you decide when you want to share. This announcement is just the first of many new decisions that you’ll need to make from the heart.

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