Many of our US-based Intended Parents choose to have their surrogate continue to express breastmilk for their child long after they’ve returned to their own homes. The beauty of expedited shipping allows surrogates to pump and freeze breastmilk, package it, and have it arrive right on your doorstep before it ever thaws. Utilizing this option allows intended parents to give their child breastmilk and all of the positive benefits that come along with it.
Generally speaking, you will discuss the potential of breastmilk pumping and shipping during your matching phase. Bear in mind that either party can change their mind about their willingness to participate in this at any time during the journey. Asking for it in matching doesn’t obligate you to stay with it after the baby is born. You may also decide during the pregnancy that you want breastmilk when, during your matching phase, you didn’t anticipate wanting to have it. It is okay to revisit the topic if your views change, in either direction.
However, if both you and your surrogate are onboard for shipping breastmilk, here’s a look at what you can expect.
Typically a surrogate will pump and store her milk at her home for several days, sometimes up to a month, before sending it to you. This is because it is important to fill each shipping cooler as full as possible, to help ensure that the milk stays frozen during shipment. Be aware that having breastmilk shipped to you may not alleviate the need for formula feeding as well, as timing of each shipment cannot always be exact.
Shipments will need to arrive at your home within 48 hours of being packaged and dropped off at the carrier by your surrogate. Depending on how far you live from your surrogate, this can sometimes be achieved by standard ground post. However, it is strongly advised that the shipment come via 2 day or overnight guaranteed delivery.
When the shipments arrive they will typically come in a large box with a Styrofoam cooler inside. Inside of the cooler you will likely find dry ice or thechni-ice packs as well as the bags of frozen breastmilk. If possible, try to have your surrogate alert you when she drops off the shipment and and give you an expected delivery time frame. It is advisable that you be at home when the shipment arrives. As you can imagine, you’ll want to move these perishable, frozen items from the cooler to your own freezer as quickly as possible.
Typically your contract will specify a compensation amount for breastmilk expression. In addition to this fee, you can expect to be responsible for the costs of all pumping supplies, postage, and shipping materials.
If you have additional questions about the benefits of breastmilk or how this process may work for you, don’t be afraid to speak with your Case Specialist, or even with your surrogate if you’re comfortable. Chances are she’s experienced with nursing and breast pumping and will be able to answer most of your questions with ease.