Finding a gestational surrogate is the first step towards your parenthood journey. This involves identifying, screening, and matching with a gestational carrier who meets medical, legal, and personal criteria. Explore safe options, agency vs. independent paths, legal considerations, and expert guidance for intended parents.

Meeting a potential surrogate brings up a mix of emotions, and it is completely normal for you to feel this way. After all, this is a big step in your surrogacy journey. This guide is here to help you approach that first conversation with confidence. It’s designed to help you make a connection with your surrogate, not as legal or medical advice.

When you begin exploring surrogacy, it is natural to wonder how long the journey will take. Understanding the surrogacy timeline can help you feel more prepared as you begin planning your path to parenthood. Learn more in our article. 

For many LGBTQIA+ couples, finding an egg donor is one of the ways they are able to start a family and build their legacy. And if it feels like a very emotional decision, you’re not alone. See our guide for gay dads on choosing an egg donor, covering donor options, genetic considerations, emotional factors, and how to approach this first major surrogacy decision.

For LGBTQIA+ intended parents choosing surrogacy as a path to parenthood, the choice of using a donor in your family-building process carries emotional and practical considerations that will shape your family’s story. Explore the emotional, legal, and long-term considerations of choosing a known vs. anonymous donor for LGBTQIA+ families in this article. 

Learn what surrogacy really costs, from agency fees to IVF, and how first-time intended parents can plan and budget with confidence.