
Surrogacy for Intended Parents
November 26, 2025 at 5:00:00 PM
Many intended parents wonder whether a surrogate shares DNA with the baby she carries. It’s a natural concern. After all, the surrogate plays a vital role in bringing the child into the world. But in modern surrogacy, the answer is clear: no, a gestational surrogate does not share genetic material with the baby.
Here’s why. In gestational surrogacy, the process used by reputable surrogacy agencies like Growing Generations, the embryo is created through in vitro fertilization (IVF) using an egg and sperm from the intended parents or donors. The resulting embryo is then transferred into the surrogate’s uterus, where she carries and nurtures the pregnancy. While the surrogate provides the environment for the baby to grow, the genetic blueprint comes entirely from the egg and sperm used to create the embryo.
This distinction is important. Traditional surrogacy, where a surrogate’s own egg is used, does involve a genetic link. However, this method is now extremely rare and not part of modern surrogacy practices due to the complex emotional and legal implications.
For intended parents, understanding this science offers peace of mind. A gestational surrogate’s role is one of care, not genetic contribution. Thanks to advances in reproductive medicine and precise laboratory protocols, your baby’s DNA is determined long before implantation, and it belongs entirely to you and/or your chosen donors.
THE BASICS OF DNA AND GENETIC INHERITANCE
To understand why a surrogate doesn’t share DNA with the baby, it helps to begin with a quick look at the science behind genetics. DNA, short for deoxyribonucleic acid, is the molecule that contains all the instructions that make each person unique. It determines countless traits, from physical features like hair color to inherited characteristics such as blood type. Most importantly, DNA is what defines biological relationships.
Every child’s genetic makeup is determined at the moment of conception, when an egg and sperm join to form an embryo. Each contributes half of the baby’s DNA, half from the egg and half from the sperm. These two sources are what establish biological parentage. The uterus, while essential to the baby’s growth and development, does not play any role in shaping genetic identity. Its purpose is to provide a safe, nurturing space where the embryo can implant, grow, and thrive throughout pregnancy.
At Growing Generations, we know that understanding this distinction offers tremendous reassurance to both intended parents and surrogates. In gestational surrogacy, which is the only form of surrogacy we facilitate, the surrogate does not provide an egg and therefore has no genetic connection to the baby she carries. The child’s DNA and their biological story come entirely from the intended parents or their chosen egg and sperm donors.
GENETICS IN TRADITIONAL VS GESTATIONAL SURROGACY
Let’s start with the basics. To understand the surrogacy process and the surrogate's role, it’s important to distinguish between the two main types of surrogacies: gestational surrogacy and the much rarer traditional surrogacy.
Gestational Surrogacy: Gestational surrogacy is the process in which a surrogate carries and delivers a baby for the intended parents. The gestational surrogate does not have genetic ties to the baby she is carrying. The embryo is created in the lab through in vitro fertilization (IVF) using the intended mother’s or donor’s egg and the intended father’s or donor’s sperm. It is then transferred to the surrogate’s uterus at the fertility clinic. This is the most common option surrogacy agencies use.
Traditional Surrogacy: Traditional surrogacy was more commonly used before modern science allowed for the creation of embryos outside of the womb. With traditional surrogacy, the surrogate’s egg is fertilized, making her both the genetic contributor and the carrier of the baby. However, this form of surrogacy is rarely practiced today, as gestational surrogacy provides a clear separation between the surrogate and the baby’s genetics.
WHEN THE SURROGATE IS GENETICALLY RELATED
Before the advances of modern reproductive technology, traditional surrogacy was the only available option for people who needed help starting a family. In this earlier form of surrogacy, the surrogate’s own egg is used to create the pregnancy, meaning she is both the gestational and genetic mother of the child. Fertilization typically occurs through artificial insemination using the intended father’s sperm or donor sperm.
Because the surrogate’s egg is part of the process, she contributes half of the baby’s DNA, creating a biological connection between her and the child. This genetic link can make traditional surrogacy emotionally and legally complex. Questions around parental rights, consent, and attachment can arise, making the process far more challenging for everyone involved.
At Growing Generations, we recognize how these early practices paved the way for today’s more advanced and emotionally secure paths to parenthood. With the development of in vitro fertilization (IVF) and gestational surrogacy, the need for traditional surrogacy has nearly disappeared. Modern gestational surrogacy ensures that the surrogate has no genetic relationship to the baby, allowing intended parents to build their families with clear legal rights and peace of mind.
WHEN THE SURROGATE IS NOT GENETICALLY RELATED
In gestational surrogacy, the process used by Growing Generations and most modern surrogacy programs today, the surrogate has no genetic connection to the baby she carries. The pregnancy begins through in vitro fertilization (IVF), where embryos are created in a laboratory using eggs and sperm from the intended parents or chosen donors. Once an embryo is formed, it is carefully transferred into the surrogate’s uterus, where she carries the pregnancy to term.
Because the embryo’s DNA is established at the moment the egg and sperm combine, the surrogate contributes no genetic material to the child. Her body provides the nurturing environment the baby needs to grow, but the baby’s biological identity comes entirely from the people whose egg and sperm were used to create the embryo.
This approach not only clarifies genetic parentage but also strengthens emotional and legal clarity for everyone involved. Gestational surrogacy allows intended parents to build their families with confidence, knowing their child’s DNA reflects the family connection they’ve intentionally chosen.
LEGAL AND EMOTIONAL REASSURANCE FOR INTENDED PARENTS
At fertilization, an embryo is formed from one set of chromosomes from the egg and one from the sperm. The resulting DNA sequence is fixed for that individual and does not change throughout life. In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate’s own DNA is not part of that code. However, even though the DNA sequence remains unchanged, the way certain genes are turned on or off, known as gene expression, can be influenced by the womb environment. This process is called epigenetics.
According to the Cleveland Clinic, “epigenetics is the study of how our environment influences our genes by changing the chemicals attached to them.” The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) similarly explains, “Epigenetics refers to how your behaviors and environment can cause changes that affect the way your genes work. Unlike genetic changes (mutations), epigenetic changes do not change the sequence of DNA bases.” In other words, the surrogate’s womb provides a nurturing environment that can influence how genes behave, but not which genes the baby has.
The surrogate’s uterus plays a crucial role in supporting fetal development, and factors such as nutrition, hormone levels, stress, exposure to chemicals, and placental function can all influence epigenetic patterns, like DNA methylation. Research has shown that even maternal well-being and social support can affect placental gene activity linked to neurodevelopment and metabolism. These subtle influences may shape aspects of growth and health, but they do not alter the child’s genetic identity.
It’s important to understand that while gene expression can be affected by the environment, the DNA sequence inherited from the egg and sperm remains unchanged. The surrogate’s body cannot alter or add to that genetic code. In gestational surrogacy, the child’s DNA comes solely from the intended parents or their chosen donors.
At Growing Generations, we believe knowledge brings peace of mind. It begins with the people who help make your journey possible. All of our surrogates are carefully vetted and represent the top 2% of all candidates. We take great care in connecting you with a surrogate who is the best match for your family and values.
SCIENCE, SUPPORT, AND TRUST WITH GROWING GENERATIONS
At Growing Generations, we combine cutting-edge science with compassionate guidance to ensure you feel informed and confident throughout your journey. From beginning to end, our process is designed to create clarity around genetics, parentage, and the medical safeguards that define modern surrogacy.
We partner exclusively with leading IVF clinics, ensuring that every embryo is created under the highest medical and ethical standards. Our screening process for surrogates and donors is among the most comprehensive in the field, covering health, genetics, and overall well-being, so that each match is built on trust and transparency. With Growing Generations, you can be certain that science supports every aspect of your path to parenthood, and we will be with you every step of the way.
Speak with a Growing Generations specialist today to learn more about the genetics behind surrogacy, and our team can help you achieve your dreams of growing your family.
Many intended parents wonder whether a surrogate shares DNA with the baby she carries. It’s a natural concern. After all, the surrogate plays a vital role in bringing the child into the world. But in modern surrogacy, the answer is clear: no, a gestational surrogate does not share genetic material with the baby.
Here’s why. In gestational surrogacy, the process used by reputable surrogacy agencies like Growing Generations, the embryo is created through in vitro fertilization (IVF) using an egg and sperm from the intended parents or donors. The resulting embryo is then transferred into the surrogate’s uterus, where she carries and nurtures the pregnancy. While the surrogate provides the environment for the baby to grow, the genetic blueprint comes entirely from the egg and sperm used to create the embryo.
This distinction is important. Traditional surrogacy, where a surrogate’s own egg is used, does involve a genetic link. However, this method is now extremely rare and not part of modern surrogacy practices due to the complex emotional and legal implications.
For intended parents, understanding this science offers peace of mind. A gestational surrogate’s role is one of care, not genetic contribution. Thanks to advances in reproductive medicine and precise laboratory protocols, your baby’s DNA is determined long before implantation, and it belongs entirely to you and/or your chosen donors.
THE BASICS OF DNA AND GENETIC INHERITANCE
To understand why a surrogate doesn’t share DNA with the baby, it helps to begin with a quick look at the science behind genetics. DNA, short for deoxyribonucleic acid, is the molecule that contains all the instructions that make each person unique. It determines countless traits, from physical features like hair color to inherited characteristics such as blood type. Most importantly, DNA is what defines biological relationships.
Every child’s genetic makeup is determined at the moment of conception, when an egg and sperm join to form an embryo. Each contributes half of the baby’s DNA, half from the egg and half from the sperm. These two sources are what establish biological parentage. The uterus, while essential to the baby’s growth and development, does not play any role in shaping genetic identity. Its purpose is to provide a safe, nurturing space where the embryo can implant, grow, and thrive throughout pregnancy.
At Growing Generations, we know that understanding this distinction offers tremendous reassurance to both intended parents and surrogates. In gestational surrogacy, which is the only form of surrogacy we facilitate, the surrogate does not provide an egg and therefore has no genetic connection to the baby she carries. The child’s DNA and their biological story come entirely from the intended parents or their chosen egg and sperm donors.
GENETICS IN TRADITIONAL VS GESTATIONAL SURROGACY
Let’s start with the basics. To understand the surrogacy process and the surrogate's role, it’s important to distinguish between the two main types of surrogacies: gestational surrogacy and the much rarer traditional surrogacy.
Gestational Surrogacy: Gestational surrogacy is the process in which a surrogate carries and delivers a baby for the intended parents. The gestational surrogate does not have genetic ties to the baby she is carrying. The embryo is created in the lab through in vitro fertilization (IVF) using the intended mother’s or donor’s egg and the intended father’s or donor’s sperm. It is then transferred to the surrogate’s uterus at the fertility clinic. This is the most common option surrogacy agencies use.
Traditional Surrogacy: Traditional surrogacy was more commonly used before modern science allowed for the creation of embryos outside of the womb. With traditional surrogacy, the surrogate’s egg is fertilized, making her both the genetic contributor and the carrier of the baby. However, this form of surrogacy is rarely practiced today, as gestational surrogacy provides a clear separation between the surrogate and the baby’s genetics.
When the Surrogate Is Genetically Related
Before the advances of modern reproductive technology, traditional surrogacy was the only available option for people who needed help starting a family. In this earlier form of surrogacy, the surrogate’s own egg is used to create the pregnancy, meaning she is both the gestational and genetic mother of the child. Fertilization typically occurs through artificial insemination using the intended father’s sperm or donor sperm.
Because the surrogate’s egg is part of the process, she contributes half of the baby’s DNA, creating a biological connection between her and the child. This genetic link can make traditional surrogacy emotionally and legally complex. Questions around parental rights, consent, and attachment can arise, making the process far more challenging for everyone involved.
At Growing Generations, we recognize how these early practices paved the way for today’s more advanced and emotionally secure paths to parenthood. With the development of in vitro fertilization (IVF) and gestational surrogacy, the need for traditional surrogacy has nearly disappeared. Modern gestational surrogacy ensures that the surrogate has no genetic relationship to the baby, allowing intended parents to build their families with clear legal rights and peace of mind.
WHEN THE SURROGATE IS NOT GENETICALLY RELATED
In gestational surrogacy, the process used by Growing Generations and most modern surrogacy programs today, the surrogate has no genetic connection to the baby she carries. The pregnancy begins through in vitro fertilization (IVF), where embryos are created in a laboratory using eggs and sperm from the intended parents or chosen donors. Once an embryo is formed, it is carefully transferred into the surrogate’s uterus, where she carries the pregnancy to term.
Because the embryo’s DNA is established at the moment the egg and sperm combine, the surrogate contributes no genetic material to the child. Her body provides the nurturing environment the baby needs to grow, but the baby’s biological identity comes entirely from the people whose egg and sperm were used to create the embryo.
This approach not only clarifies genetic parentage but also strengthens emotional and legal clarity for everyone involved. Gestational surrogacy allows intended parents to build their families with confidence, knowing their child’s DNA reflects the family connection they’ve intentionally chosen.
LEGAL AND EMOTIONAL REASSURANCE FOR INTENDED PARENTS
At fertilization, an embryo is formed from one set of chromosomes from the egg and one from the sperm. The resulting DNA sequence is fixed for that individual and does not change throughout life. In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate’s own DNA is not part of that code. However, even though the DNA sequence remains unchanged, the way certain genes are turned on or off, known as gene expression, can be influenced by the womb environment. This process is called epigenetics.
According to the Cleveland Clinic, “epigenetics is the study of how our environment influences our genes by changing the chemicals attached to them.” The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) similarly explains, “Epigenetics refers to how your behaviors and environment can cause changes that affect the way your genes work. Unlike genetic changes (mutations), epigenetic changes do not change the sequence of DNA bases.” In other words, the surrogate’s womb provides a nurturing environment that can influence how genes behave, but not which genes the baby has.
The surrogate’s uterus plays a crucial role in supporting fetal development, and factors such as nutrition, hormone levels, stress, exposure to chemicals, and placental function can all influence epigenetic patterns, like DNA methylation. Research has shown that even maternal well-being and social support can affect placental gene activity linked to neurodevelopment and metabolism. These subtle influences may shape aspects of growth and health, but they do not alter the child’s genetic identity.
It’s important to understand that while gene expression can be affected by the environment, the DNA sequence inherited from the egg and sperm remains unchanged. The surrogate’s body cannot alter or add to that genetic code. In gestational surrogacy, the child’s DNA comes solely from the intended parents or their chosen donors.
At Growing Generations, we believe knowledge brings peace of mind. It begins with the people who help make your journey possible. All of our surrogates are carefully vetted and represent the top 2% of all candidates. We take great care in connecting you with a surrogate who is the best match for your family and values.
SCIENCE, SUPPORT, AND TRUST WITH GROWING GENERATIONS
At Growing Generations, we combine cutting-edge science with compassionate guidance to ensure you feel informed and confident throughout your journey. From beginning to end, our process is designed to create clarity around genetics, parentage, and the medical safeguards that define modern surrogacy.
We partner exclusively with leading IVF clinics, ensuring that every embryo is created under the highest medical and ethical standards. Our screening process for surrogates and donors is among the most comprehensive in the field, covering health, genetics, and overall well-being, so that each match is built on trust and transparency. With Growing Generations, you can be certain that science supports every aspect of your path to parenthood, and we will be with you every step of the way.
Speak with a Growing Generations specialist today to learn more about the genetics behind surrogacy, and our team can help you achieve your dreams of growing your family.
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