Surrogacy For LGBTQIA+ Parents
At Growing Generations, we offer a personalized experience as you navigate your unique path to parenthood. With exceptional care, a hands-on approach, and an unwavering commitment to your dream of building a family, we provide tailored guidance built on trust, integrity, and decades of superior expertise in family building.
30 Years of Industry
Leadership
Since 1996, we have been at the
forefront of modern family building for the LGBTQIA+ community. We are among the very first agencies to help gay and single men become fathers through surrogacy and egg donation.
55% of Clients
are LGBTQIA+
With 55% of our clients being
LGBTQIA+ families, we continue to set the standard for care, transparency, and trust. Growing Generations continues to be at the forefront of advocacy, and inclusivity in family building.
23% of Team
are LGBTQIA+
23% of our team are LGBTQIA+ themselves. This lived experience ensures we approach your journey with deep understanding, sensitivity, and respect.
99.3% Success Rate for Surrogate Journeys
With a 99.3% success rate for birth rates of our surrogacy program, our service delivers exceptional care and unparalleled expertise.
We turn your dreams of building your family into a reality.
PATHS TO PARENTHOOD FOR LGBTQIA+ INTENDED PARENTS
Every family behind our 99.3% success rate is unique. From the start, we’ve pioneered and supported the LGBTQIA+ community becoming parents embracing the individuality of each family for 30 years.
Surrogacy for gay couples and single dads
For gay couples and single fathers, the process involves finding both the right egg donor and surrogate. We guide you through every step, from finding the perfect donor match to guiding you through the embryo creation process, until you hold your baby in your arms.
As one of the first agencies to support gay and single men become parents through surrogacy, we remain committed to providing LGBTQIA+ parents with exceptional care.
We also support polyamorous intended parents, ensuring that families with three parents experience the same care, expertise, and legal protection as any family we serve.
Surrogacy for gay couples and single dads
For gay couples and single fathers, the process involves finding both the right egg donor and surrogate. We guide you through every step, from finding the perfect donor match to guiding you through the embryo creation process, until you hold your baby in your arms.
As one of the first agencies to support gay and single men become parents through surrogacy, we remain committed to providing LGBTQIA+ parents with exceptional care.
We also support polyamorous intended parents, ensuring that families with three parents experience the same care, expertise, and legal protection as any family we serve.
Surrogacy for lesbians and reciprocal IVF with Donor sperm
For lesbian couples, the journey often begins with finding the right sperm donor. You may pursue reciprocal IVF, where one partner provides the eggs while the other carries the pregnancy.
You can also choose to work with a surrogate if carrying a pregnancy is not possible or desired. Our team works closely with you to design the path that feels right for your family.
Surrogacy and fertility preservation for transgender intended parents
We are proud to support transgender intended parents at every stage of family building. If you have preserved eggs or sperm before transitioning, we can help you find the right donor or surrogate to suit your family-building needs.
We are committed to providing exceptional care and support at every stage of your distinctive surrogacy journey.
Single and Non-Binary Parenting Option
For single intended parents—whether gay, lesbian, straight, or non-binary—your journey involves unique challenges and considerations. With the right combination of donor selection and surrogacy support, we help you achieve your dreams of parenthood.
We understand you may have specific needs, and our team is here to ensure
every step reflects your identity, values, and goals.
SURROGACY PROCESS FOR LGBTQIA+ INTENDED PARENTS
At Growing Generations, every surrogacy journey is a personalized experience reflecting our expertise, compassion, and respect. Our custom step-by-step process is tailored to meet the unique family-building needs of LGBTQIA+ intended parents. Each of our surrogates undergoes an in-depth screening process and represents the top 2% of applicants, reflecting our commitment to the highest standards of care. It’s why 99% of intended parents confirm their match after meeting their first surrogate candidate, starting a trusted relationship to cherish for a lifetime.
Your journey begins with an inquiry form intentionally written with inclusive language, ensuring that no individual is excluded due to their orientation, gender identity, or family structure. Your initial consultation begins with an in-depth discussion of goals, expectations, and any specific requirements. Our team anticipates what to expect and tailors every step to meet your unique needs.
Unlike heterosexual couples, who may use their own eggs or sperm, same-sex couples typically require a donor. We offer access to a diverse and highly selective egg and sperm donor database. You may choose an egg or sperm donor based on health history, education, physical traits, and other important factors.
The next step is finding the right surrogate. Our personalized surrogate matching process takes into consideration your preferences, expectations, and personality when pairing you with a surrogate. We take pride in carefully matching you with a surrogate that shares your values and commitment to the process. Many of our surrogates are deeply committed to supporting LGBTQIA+ families and are genuinely excited to walk this journey with you.
We guide you through the embryo transfer process by working with your surrogate. Once pregnancy is confirmed, we partner with you every step of the way with regular medical updates and coordinated care for your surrogate to ensure a smooth journey.
We provide continuous support and communication throughout the pregnancy by keeping you involved and informed at every stage. As the due date approaches, we will assist you in finalizing your birth plans and hospital arrangements. We guide you through the delivery process to ensure a seamless transition into parenthood. Regardless of the family structure, the joy of welcoming a child is a life-changing moment, and we are honored to be part of this experience.
Even after your baby arrives, our commitment continues. From celebrating with you to offering guidance on next steps, we remain a resource for your growing family.
STEP 1
Application and Consultation
STEP 2
Donor and surrogate matching
STEP 3
IVF and Embryo Transfer
STEP 4
Pregnancy and birth
STEP 5
Post-Birth Support
HOW WE PROTECT YOU WITH LEGAL SAFEGUARDS
Your path to parenthood means navigating complex surrogacy laws that vary by state and country. We partner with the top law firms to ensure your parental rights are clearly established, allowing you to move forward with peace of mind, knowing your parental rights are secure.
State-by-State Parentage Variations
Birth Certificate Issues
International Travel Considerations
Not every state in the U.S. treats surrogacy and LGBTQIA+ parentage the same way. Some states automatically grant full parental rights to both parents at birth, while others require a court-issued parentage order or adoption to secure legal recognition. For transgender parents, the laws can be even more complex, depending on how states handle gender markers or family status. Our legal partners help you navigate these differences, ensuring that your rights are clearly outlined and enforced.
Having your family recognized on official documents is crucial. While many states now allow same-sex couples to be listed as “Parent” and “Parent,” there are still places where one parent may be excluded without additional legal action. Our legal partners advocate to have your names correctly reflected and, when necessary, pursue court orders to guarantee your legal ties to the child. This protects your family in schools, healthcare, and every other setting where proof of parentage matters.
For families who live abroad or who plan to travel internationally with their child, parentage and citizenship rules can create additional hurdles. Some countries do not recognize surrogacy arrangements at all, while others impose strict requirements for children born through assisted reproduction. We connect you with top legal experts to guide you on securing the proper travel documents, passports, and legal confirmations before you leave the U.S., ensuring your child’s citizenship and your parental rights are recognized across borders.
At Growing Generations, we ensure you are fully supported and protected from the start, so you can focus on the joy of welcoming your child.
Real Families, Real Journeys
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Parent
"Don and I want all of you to know that we will be forever grateful to Growing Generations for helping to make our dream come true. We appreciate the professionalism and care that everyone has shown us through this journey. Sometimes, it doesn't seem real. Words cannot express how much we love our little babies."
David and Don, Arkansas
Parents to Daughter Alena and son Aiden
JOSÉ AND MIQUEL
INTENDED PARENTS
1/6
PARENT
"We want to explain our child that he or she is the result of a sum of very generous acts: most of all that of his surrogate mother and the egg donor who also made it possible for him to exist. This gesture of offering the potential of one’s own body to others is something beautiful. This makes us think that this baby will bring with him this sum of generosity, solidarity, hope and understanding. He will not be born by surprise, but rather our surprise will always be in him, in his amazing existence to which so many people have contributed with professionalism, love and dedication."
TIM
PARENT
2/6
PARENT
"Thank you, for my new family. The twins are beautiful and perfect in every way. After my parents, who gave me life, you have given me the most important gift I will ever receive. I will be forever grateful. What joy this is… like nothing I have ever known! Yours is the work of angels! Much Love."
ERIC AND DOUG SAN FRANCISCO,
PARENTS TO TWIN DAUGHTERS
3/6
PARENT
"Growing Generations was by our side throughout the process of becoming parents – on the good – as well as the bad days. Now, we’re blessed with the two most beautiful girls in the world. Thank you GG for helping make our dreams come true."
PARENT
"Don and I want all of you to know that we will be forever grateful to Growing Generations for helping to make our dream come true. We appreciate the professionalism and care that everyone has shown us through this journey. Sometimes, it doesn’t seem real. Words cannot express how much we love our little babies."
DAVID AND DON, ARKANSAS
PARENTS TO DAUGHTER ALENA AND SON AIDEN
4/6
ANTHONY AND IRA, LOS ANGELES
PARENTS TO DAUGHTER NOELLE
5/6
PARENT
"Thank you guys for seeing us through. We feel so fortunate that you decided to do what you do, when we decided to do what we’re doing with your help. How’s that for a tongue twister!"
PARENT
"We want to express our deepest gratitude for making our lifelong dream of becoming parents a reality. Thank you all for helping us through a process that at times was overwhelming. Your professionalism, support, and love made us feel at ease."
ERIC AND JOSE, BOSTON
PARENTS TO DAUGHTER ALEXA
6/6
Real Families, Real Journeys
Frequently Asked Questions
As an LGBTQIA+ parent navigating this journey, we are here to answer any questions you may have. Here are answers to questions we hear most often.
In most U.S. states, surrogacy is legal for same-sex couples, but the specific laws vary. Some states are more favorable to surrogacy arrangements and parentage rights than others. That’s why we work closely with top surrogacy law firms to help you navigate state-by-state variations and ensure your family’s rights are fully protected.
Many LGBTQIA+ intended parents are surprised to learn that finding a surrogate with us is just as easy for them as it is for any other intended parent. The wait time for a gay couple is the same as for everyone else and depends on factors like your preferences, donor choices, and surrogate availability. We ensure every family is matched with a surrogate who’s genuinely supportive and excited to work with LGBTQIA+ parents—so you never have to worry about being at a disadvantage.
Planning is key. We match intended parents with surrogates in states where establishing parentage for LGBTQIA+ couples is legally achievable. We partner with top law firms that prepare the necessary documents, such as pre-birth or post-birth parentage orders, to ensure both parents are legally recognized. Our process helps prevent delays or complications after your child’s birth.
Yes. Transgender parents can use previously preserved sperm or eggs in the IVF process. If you froze them before transitioning, we can use them to help you grow your family. We know the medical nuances of this journey and are here to guide you every step of the way.
Yes. Surrogacy is a significant investment; there are grants and financing programs available that are designed with LGBTQIA+ families in mind. We can connect you with resources and organizations that may offer financial assistance tailored to your journey.
